How to be More Feminine In 8 Simple Steps

This post is a follow-up article from my first article on 18 Simple Ideas For Now To Be More Feminine.

The hustle and bustle of everyday life can lead us to neglect our feminine appearance, manners and body language.

Many women are struggling with lost femininity in this day and age. We are so busy working, studying, creating projects, organizing trips, keeping up with social media, etc.

This leads us to disconnect from our bodies and go into our heads. In extreme cases, the stress of modern daily life leads us to dissociate from our bodies, numb ourselves and replace real connection with addictions.

If we really want to look more feminine we have to work on various aspects of our personality to achieve that goal. We must start by paying attention to not only our aesthetic style, but also our self-esteem, habits, and our overall behavior.

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Before initiating any change in your behavior and aesthetic style you must begin by loving yourself.

In the case of most women who have become over-masculinized, this would actually mean to start by loving and appreciating the masculine parts of you.

As much as you may want to disown them or swing the pendulum to the opposite extreme, your masculine energy has served you well in the past and it’s important to love that and appreciate that.

Remember that you have already achieved many goals in life and be sure that even if you cultivate and deepen your feminine energy, that doesn’t mean that you will have to lose the useful and intelligent masculine parts of yourself.

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Other people’s perception

If you want to be feminine it is because you want others to perceive you as soft, gentle, and a lady. Someone nice and mild-mannered.

There are many things that you can put into practice right now…

Start by smiling at others from a place of softness and openness. Minimize any attention seeking loudness. You can do this by lowering your voice and controlling your impulses.

When you address others, speak in a rather low but clear tone, listen to what others are saying, and don’t speak at the same time as the others.

Speak at a steady pace which you feel the listener can connect with, so that you can be understood better.

Do not use insults in your language. Feel free to laugh all you want, that’s always nice.

Use these phrases in your daily life: “Thank you”, “Please” and “Excuse me”.

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Hygiene is one of the most important aspects in the life of an elegant and feminine woman.

Bathe every day and turn that ritual into a pleasant activity.

Use your favorite soap, use an exfoliating sponge to purify your skin, invest in a good shampoo, etc.

You should also take care of your oral health to show off a nice smile.

When you finish your bath use a fresh perfume, one that carries a soft, delicate and feminine scent.

Use a perfume that will give you a light feminine aura and will also make you feel great immediately.

If you want, you can always use this perfume as your signature scent, so that others remember you and recognize you.

This will also help build positive associations with the special man that you’re dating. Over time, he will come to associate you with this particular feminine fragrance.

Your hygiene should extend to the clothes and shoes you wear. Wash your clothes regularly.

Take care of your health

Health is the cornerstone of feminine energy! without health, you cannot access your natural born feminine health.

You feminine attractiveness depends largely on how healthy your body is. The less healthy you are, the lower the quality of expression of your genes.

Most women are primarily more feminine in genes and nature, and this shows up best when you’re healthy. If you want to be feminine you must take care of your body by eating properly.

Get regular physical activity to stay in shape. If you look good, you will feel good about yourself and be able to wear all the soft, feminine clothes you want.

Remember to choose an activity that is enjoyable for you: walking, dancing, swimming, etc. Check out these feminine hobbies.

The important thing when it comes to exercise for health is that you like it and enjoy doing it.

Exercise releases endorphins and makes you feel great all day. If you feel good about yourself you will project that self love to others, and show up high value.

Aesthetic style

A feminine woman gives due importance to her hair and skin.

Start by studying your face well and choose the best haircut for you. The style you choose should highlight the best angles of your face and avoid those aspects you don’t like.

As for the makeup, you must be moderate.

Choose a soft style, and leave the exaggerated glamour for a time when it’s appropriate.

A lot of women these days latch onto makeup like it is the one thing that will get them all the male attention, and make them feel worthy.

Nothing could be further from the truth. Makeup is best used to just enhance your features. Yes, most women use makeup to cover things up, but most of the time, there’s no need for this.

Be proud of your features, your genes and be free to express them! Always remember what we discussed above: your outstanding health is the TRUE answer to showing up high value and feminine.

If you prefer, you can also choose not to use makeup. If that is your choice remember to take care of your skin through a good cleaning, nutrition and hydration.

How to be feminine: clothing

If you want to enhance your feminine appearance, clothes can be your great ally.

The priority for you, if you want to enhance your femininity, should be comfort. You must feel comfortable in the clothes you are wearing.

To feel more confident, choose the classic, elegant options: a black dress, white shirt, black pants, jeans and a plan t shirt, or a jean jacket.

How to be feminine: body language

You must be aware of the message you are sending with your body.

Choose a good posture, walk at a medium speed, sit correctly with your shoulders pulled back.

Do not invade the space of others, do not spread your legs when you sit, use your arms and hands delicately.

How to be feminine: good manners & education

Remember to say hello when you enter a place. Respect the social code of the place you are in.

You don’t have to be nice to everyone and you don’t have to like everyone, but as a general rules, remember to be respectful to everyone.

How to be feminine: be treated well by men

Many men like to be gentlemen.

Behave like a lady: gratefully let him pay when you have a date and accept with pleasure the gentlemanly things he does for you.

Let him think he wears the pants and that he is in control of the relationship, even if that is debatable in your own mind.

Final thoughts

The answers to how to be more feminine are much simpler than you would expected.

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Always remember that if we value ourselves, we can project a positive image of ourselves to the outside world.

Without self love and self acceptance, you cannot fully embody your feminine energy. This is because as a woman, you would most likely identify with the feminine energy the most.

And if you don’t have self love, or if you harbour underlying self hatred and self rejection, this will fundamentally detract from your ability to express your unique feminine energy.

To be feminine is to externalize that softness and to give it a place in your life.

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